How to find a good hair moisturizer for relaxed and natural Black hair

What to look for in a moisturizer and what ingredients to avoid

Moisturizing hair is as important as deep conditioning to any black person who wishes to have long hair. As washing and deep conditioning the hair every day is quite impractical, a hair moisturizer is required to avoid dryness until the next wash.

Relaxed and natural black hair tends to be quite porous so loses moisture quickly. The key to long beautiful locks is to keep replacing the moisture lost. The easiest way to do this between washes is to use a good moisturizer.

First things first, let’s deal with a common misconception about oil. Oil is not a moisturizer! Oil lubricates the hair and ‘seals in’ any moisture you already have in the hair. If your hair is dry and brittle and you apply oil to it then you are doing your hair more harm than good. The oil will coat the hair and prevent any further moisture from entering the hair which will lead to breakage.

The best moisturizers should always be water based i.e. the first ingredient should be water; water is in fact the best moisturizer! Good moisturizers should also contain humectants. These are ingredients which attract water from the atmosphere, glycerine being the most popular of these. Honey is also an excellent humectant but more commonly used in conditioners and not moisturizers.

Always avoid moisturizers that contain mineral oil or any other petroleum based product in the first few ingredients. Mineral oil does nothing but coat the hair leaving it shiny but dry.

You may find that the best conditioners are the ones that are marketed to ‘wet type’ styles (jheri curl or wave nouveau) as they contain mainly water and glycerine. S curl is particularly good.

How to use hair moisturizers is just as important as getting the right product. If you plan to blow dry or roller set your hair, after towel drying apply a dime sized amount of a water and glycerine based moisturizer before you apply the same amount of heat protectant and comb through hair to evenly distribute. After the blow dry or roller set your hair will be left soft and silky to the touch and will remain like this throughout the day. If you plan to flat iron it then only apply leave in conditioner and a silicone based heat protectant to the hair. See the article on how to get movement in relaxed hair.

Moisturizers should then be applied daily or as needed. Only a dime sized amount is required for shoulder length hair. A touch more for longer hair. Always comb the moisturiser through the length of the hair with a wide tooth comb to make sure that every strand gets its share. You can apply a bit more to the ends if desired. There is no benefit in loading your hair with moisturizer as hair is only about 10-14% water and all you are trying to do is regain the moisture balance in your hair. You are more likely to ruin your style by leaving relaxed hair looking greasy or reverting natural hair altogether by applying too much moisturizer! When you use a moisturizer well, it should keep your hair from drying out without weighing the hair down or being sticky.

Oil free moisturizers are also good option. They contain silicones that help ‘seal’ the moisture into the hair but their first ingredient must also be water and hair should be washed every 3rd day to prevent build-up. Some good examples of natural oil that can be used to seal in moisture after a wash are coconut oil, avocado butter, mango butter or Shea butter. Remember that these are oils and will just lock in whatever moisture you already have in your hair. It is advisable to dampen the hair slightly before applying any hair oil to it.

Author Bio

BHI – has written 198 posts.

BlackHairInformation.com is the brainchild of myself Alma Campbell. I am a homemaker, a mother and a writer. I started the website in mid 2008 with breaking relaxed hair. After making the decision to transition to natural hair, I have now fulfilled my dream of healthy long hair and I want you to achieve the same. My favourite subject is hair and I continue to blog about my hair journey here but I also write a weight loss blog LessFoodMoreLife.com

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Posted by BHI on February 14, 2010. Filed under Moisturizing. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0. You can leave a response or trackback to this entry

Cynthia Henry

I have spent most of my day reading the srticles on your website. I have been natural for almost a year…my hair is very dry and still breaking now I know why. I will try the caramel treatment and let you know how it works…I thank you so much…I was really thinking about hetting another relaxer…I'll be talking to you later.
The Milk Maid

Sick of blindly blundering around your steamy shower cabinet looking for the right bottle? Disappointed when that sensuous foam fails to froth? Fed up smearing your barnet in face cream, pile balm or domestos?
Why should you need the Hubble telescope to read the labels on bottles? Are the manufacturers aiming their products at only watchmakers and the blokes who can write the whole of the bible on a rice grain?
Unless you're waiting for the invention of talking containers, demand now that Shampoo and Conditioner bottles are colour coded and the text is written in 76 point bold electric neon. Threaten to never wash your hair again – that might work.
Kdb383

I’m so depressed about my hair. I am going broke buying materials and things to get my hair back healthy. My hair just started falling out. I don’t know if it was the color I put in it or what or the scarf I was using each night. all I know is that I am so tired of my hair healthy looking one day and the next look like and old worn out mop. Brittle looking the ends look terrible then just the other day it was fine. Some say oils coconut and evoo but it seem that the olive oil was working and now its not because I put somehting else in it becasue I was in a hurry for work. I am so unhappy about my hair
Becca

Sometimes the reasons for hair loss is Anesthesia. Anesthesia weakens the hair folicles causing the hair to become weak and to easily fall out. If you’ve had surgery or anything else using Anesthesia and afterwords your hair would fall out then this must be the cause. I’ve had the same problems my hair used to be very strong but now just a brush through my hair and strands seem to just pop out! I’m still trying to save my hair till this day. Maybe in the future I’ll just start all over from scratch.