It is possible that the perception of value attached to long hair came from the Native American, centuries ago. The original Americans, who grew long locks down to their tailbones, didn’t cut their hair because they believed their strength derived from the length.
It is also a possibility that this mindset was adopted from the legacy of Sampson and Delilah; a perfect example of believing strength and power lies within the hair. Sampson had lengthy hair and was a strong individual, until Delilah cut it, then he became weak. Within this story, Sampson’s hair represented power; and in some cases, this stands true today.
In addition to power and strength, maybe long hair had much to do with a heightened confidence level due to the sensation of sexuality and desire.
This now draws attention to the notion that women with long hair tend to attract a wide array of men, enabling the woman to quite possibly feel “empowered” through her sexuality. Assess this concept for yourself.
Do you know anyone who has undergone transforming her look from short to long hair by either, the natural process of growth or the use of a weave or extensions*? Did you notice a change in her confidence level when men were around?
We have to admit this is still relevant today, long hair does in fact give some of us an air of sexy and a moment or two of power. This is even true for guys coming up who have been groomed to believe that a girl is pretty because she has long hair. (I know you have heard a little boy say that at least one time in your life)
It is pretty much common knowledge that in our quest for acceptance by men, we as women tend to play into the stereotype and want to become the object of their desires; even through our hair length.
Most often, men are more attracted to women with longer hair because they have quite possibly associated longer hair with sophistication, fragility and other similar feminine qualities; totally opposite from themselves.
I discovered this concept in an old January issue of Men’s Health Magazine. The interviewer: “So, if a woman has short hair, does that automatically take her off a guy’s radar?” The man’s response: “She had her hair cut short and a guy friend told her she was no longer on men’s radar. She was freaking out!!” The actress these men were speaking of is Natalie Portman.
Over the years long hair has represented power, beauty and sexuality as the media has, more often than not, portrayed Caucasian and African American women alike with long, shiny, flowing hair with ‘flippage’ abilities.
You know those infamous shampoo and conditioner commercials where the women are flipping their hair at every angle! Well, they will likely continue promoting long hair to represent certain attributes, but we don’t have to play into that.
I would say healthy hair is power, beauty and sexuality regardless of the length. These days women are celebrating who they are at any length, a pixie cut can bring anyone to their knees. The question we have remains: is long hair still as empowering as it once was?
Pam McLauren says
No
Lauren Anderson says
I think the history behind long hair is interesting but often I find myself thinking of cutting my hair when I wear it down
Trudy Proctor says
Empowerment has nothing to do with your hair, skin color nor physical appearance..
Shana Smith says
Well said.
Shana Smith says
As black women we give hair way too much power. All the emphasis and energy that we put on hair. It’s just hair. What happened to I am not my hair?
Vivian N. Larsen says
ALL females feel that way and it’s because beautiful hair is empowering because one’s hair is 80% one’s looks!
Have you seen how FEW looks good without hair.. VS how MANY looks amazing with beautiful long hair..
Shana Smith says
Hair is 80% looks? Wow. So when cancer patients lose their hair they are basically screwed in the “looks” department by your standards. That’s sad. I’m happy your opinion is not a fact.
Tiffany Candiee'Tulips Roberts says
Right !! #iamnotmyhair
La Toya Taylor says
So true!Black women with short hair want long thick healthier hair.Sometimes they’re self-conscious about their short hair and get jealous when they see other women with that coarse pretty hair.What gets me is that some people will try to make you feel inferior or under the impression that if your hair is short you don’t look good and you have to do things to make it grow longer or else.Well hair is hair and you work with what you got geesh.
Bria Brown says
black woman do feel more empowering by having long hair because they feel more confident I think. But ultimately hair should’nt make you feel more confident or empowered.
Vivian N. Larsen says
ALL females feel that way and it’s because beautiful hair is empowering because one’s hair is 80% one’s looks!
Bria Brown says
im pretty sure its not 80 percent.
Kristina Coleman says
I like “my” long hair because that’s what I like on me. It has nothing to do with feeling empowered. Hair is hair, short or long. It’s strictly up to each individual.
Sagittarius Felisha says
I concur. Love long hair..
Sagittarius Felisha says
For those like me who grow long hair effortlessly without any expensive products, vitamins ect, it really isn’t a big deal I cut mine every year. Maybe it’s empowerment for those who rely on such expensive products to grow a few inches when they are not use to having length…. Genes determine hair length, long hair is definately in my family genes……
Aliyah Morrison says
No terminal length how you take care of it hair routine and diet determines how long it grows . Almost all the woman in my family has long hair . I’m growing mines out because I cut it last year so it’s medium length . I know friends who have short hair and a family with long hair and I also know friends with long hair and family with short hair . So genes has nothing to do with hair length it only determines your texture and the thickness of your strands .
Chandra Houston says
It’s hair and holds no power short or long
Tiela Lewis says
This is a real question? I am more confident when my hair IS: done nicely, cut is tight. Be in long or short. I’ve had both ways. Short is easier for me. I do my own too. Confidence comes from within, your soul, spirit.
Margaret Graham says
Very interesting article. I had to reflect on my own journey. When my relaxed hair was long the man I was with, who met me with long hair, said he usually only dates women with short hair. With weave, men always turned their heads. Now that I am transitioning and loving it. I am finding I’m more confident. My fiance who is white absolutely loves it, my coworkers like it. At my age i finally feel like I coming into my own…
Tiger Lilly says
I thought long hair meant seductive, sensual and sexy back in the day or just feminine.
Faye Gavin says
Empowerment comes from within. Color, hair nor size has anything to do with it. Self confidence is everything.
Movetta Newell says
Different people use different things for empowerment, however I really can’t see the empowerment u get from ur LONG hair if its FAKE
Shanta Mitchell says
Wait a minute, there actually exists people who view long hair as a sorce of “empowerment”?
LOL
Erra Johnson says
This was my question.
Nichelle Eggleston says
Never knew it meant anything but a preference to women!
I like both shirt and long whatever frames your face!
Andrea Tre says
Hair doesn’t mean empowerment…..it’s attitude and how you see yourself.
Shavonne R. Boyd says
Its called biology…longer hair is often associated with health and fertility, just like larger hips.. We are not so removed from nature as we would like to believe ..
Brittney Latoy Cruz says
I LOVE long hair but I always get tons of compliments when ever I wear my hair short. I feel beautiful with long hair just like i feel sexy in heels. I’m not obsessed with it to the point I’m going crazy. There is nothing wrong with having a particular thing that makes you feel beautiful. But I’ve never seen white people get in groups and tell a white girl she’s not white enough bc her hair isn’t straight enough or bc it’s curly. I hate being told by my own people I’m not black bc i choose not to be natural its ridiculous and stupid. It’s freaking hair get over it! !!
Carmen Martinez says
Buddhist monks shave their heads bald and they are very spiritual people. Full of knowledge and wisdom!
Gabrielle Pittman says
I’ve had literally everything big fro, straight, Bob, pixie, now a twa. They’ve all satisfied my self esteem but do what makes you happy. Your hair is gorgeous and empowering and don’t let no one tell you different. These articles are clearly a lil delusional. Lol
Khanstantly LovingLife says
Uh.. it’s not empowerment… but it is a change up. I never knew long hair meant something. :-/
Rosy Rose says
Whatever floats your boat. I think a tight short cut in the work place hollers power.
MsCDwel says
I am natural now and decided to go short and I just adore it. Men being attracted to me in general has not changed, but what I have noticed is other races being attracted more and men with a more gentlemanly character.
MsCDwel says
I am natural now and decided to go short and I just adore it. Men being attracted to me in general has not changed, but what I have noticed is other races being attracted more and men with a more gentlemanly character.
Relaxed Thairapy says
I feel confident and empowered with long or short hair.
Jay | Relaxed Thairapy says
I feel confident and empowered with long or short hair.
Anonymous says
Damm near everyone is wearing a long Wig or weave it’s toooooooo Dammmmmm hot for that shhhhhhhhhhhj
Anonymous says
Wow I must be slow I didn’t know long hair meant that..
Anonymous says
I didn’t know there was any symbolic meaning to long hair…just a person’s preference. Same thing with style, color, texture, etc. But I guess *shrugs* if y’all wanna make something outta nothing.